Divorce Advice – When is the Right Time to Reconcile After Divorce?

If you are thinking of divorce in near future, it is a good idea to seek some divorce advice from those who have already gone through the pains of separation. Though separation might not be painful initially, it is considered to be a painful experience in the long run. Divorce seems to be the only way out when couples start arguing and finding fault in each other.

It is true that divorce is a reality of changing times. The sanctity of marriage is losing its value day by day. However I must say that reconciliation after marriage is also a reality. A good no. of couples tries to reconcile soon after the separation process it over. Surprisingly the same couples start looking at their broken relationship as a learning experience for future relationships.

So, when is the right time to initiate the first step to reconcile after divorce? It depends a lot on the individual and his/her love for life partner. Following are some tips that might be helpful in deciding if you are ready for reconciliation.

o Do you still keep thinking about your ex life partner all the time?

o Do you believe that you could have saved the marriage if certain things had happened as per your wish?

o Do you feel lonely?

o Do you blame yourself for the failed marriage?

o Does your partner also feel the same way?

It is difficult to find out if your partner also has some feelings for you. However it is not difficult to start the conversation and find out the truth. Often direct questioning is not an effective way to find out your partner’s feeling therefore you must use tried and tested techniques to ensure 100 % success at your attempt.