You never wanted the break up to happen and yet it did. Before you know it, all the pleasant routine in your life changed into a nightmare. You do not have someone to go out with, you lost the person you loved to share your passions with, and, in brief, you just feel utterly alone and miserable. Stand up, and take things back! There are just 3 steps to bring your ex back that you have to learn.
Step #1: Don’t Make Yourself a Fixture
The first temptation many people that were left alone fall for is to try to force themselves upon the person they lost. It could not be something less dangerous than this habit. Instead of trying to become a fixture in your ex’s life, like abusing phone calls and text messages, make sure they will not be able to see or hear about you for a while. A little mystery will only have them thinking about you more than they would admit.
Step #2: Start Showing Yourself
A little mystery is good, but only a little. After you had them wondering about your whereabouts, it is the moment to start showing yourself again. Begin by slowing regaining lost ground, like meeting with mutual friends, or going to parties. Remember to always look great, and let your ex admire you from a distance.
Step #3: Start Rebuilding Your Relationship
After you let them know you are still alive, you can move further and initiate a small conversation. Maybe they would like to talk to you first, and, if that is the case, show that you are open for communication. The right pace is very important while you do that. Getting reacquainted should be done at the right time, and it will represent the beginning of a new stage in your relationship, the rebuilding part. Do not dwell on pointing fingers, instead, try to make things work.